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Love Letters

I have a boyfriend — and a crush on my friend, who’s a woman

Do I stay with him — or discover more about my sexuality?

A running group crush

This letter writer can’t run away from the feelings.

Why is my friend upset about my new girlfriend?

I don’t think she has feelings for me ...

I’m concerned about my wife’s mental health

How can I keep her (and our family) safe?

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She wants an open marriage, but she’s worried things won’t work out well

She broke things off, but can’t seem to move on

Three of us are crushing on the same girl. It’s getting weird.

She’s an extrovert. I’m a homebody. How do we make it work?

The women in my boyfriend’s family do all the planning. I don’t want to

He says she means nothing to him

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The big red flag: alcohol

He does not know how to tolerate his drinking.

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My spouse racked up over $2,000 in parking tickets at work. It’s a problem.

We aren’t in a great financial situation. How do I get it to sink in that it needs to stop?

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My husband is on Tinder

He explained why, but it doesn’t make me feel great about this marriage!

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There’s a good reason she didn’t respond …

They met on an app, but maybe they already knew each other. Maybe they knew each other very well.

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My partner doesn’t like babies

Does that mean we shouldn’t have any?

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My husband prefers photos of me where I don’t look like myself

“I just get the feeling that my regular brunette self — with no makeup and sometimes glasses — doesn’t do it for him.”

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A letter writer update: months later, big changes

After a breakup, a new partner ... and more.